tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7621404337988760741.post3391074059433070680..comments2023-03-27T15:03:44.358+01:00Comments on Siswick Construction Zone: Desperately Seeking TruthCarolhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05877047072892534382noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7621404337988760741.post-43116301887657248002008-06-17T21:29:00.000+01:002008-06-17T21:29:00.000+01:00Ummm...all I can say about three kids, is CHAOS......Ummm...all I can say about three kids, is CHAOS...insanity, non-functionality...need I say more...<BR/><BR/>But then again, your kids sleep through the night early, so if you get a good baby it may be a piece of cake for you. If it is, please don't tell me, I do not want to know!AMYhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08224990748194294817noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7621404337988760741.post-22982170385991055252008-06-14T05:13:00.000+01:002008-06-14T05:13:00.000+01:00When we had our third I did find it hard but only ...When we had our third I did find it hard but only at first. But after a few weeks you figure it out and it just seems like you've always done it. I wouldn't trade it for anything!!Shannonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08998718741346471921noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7621404337988760741.post-42113301094428060952008-06-13T20:36:00.000+01:002008-06-13T20:36:00.000+01:00Hey, thanks for the blog visit. I totally have to...Hey, thanks for the blog visit. I totally have to agree with a previous comment, three has got to be easier than two. It's that playmate thang that helps. <BR/><BR/>We don't have three yet, but in watching four kids most days, I know that you just make it work.<BR/><BR/>You are a wordsmith by the way, so well written, I'm envious!Anti-Supermomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13748550116367234098noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7621404337988760741.post-72801421686448554972008-06-13T20:26:00.000+01:002008-06-13T20:26:00.000+01:00You can do it. And sure, you'll be in pajamas and...You can do it. And sure, you'll be in pajamas and not showering for a while, but it will pass. <BR/><BR/>Like in three years.Heidihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14892934158515052460noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7621404337988760741.post-79487863610923457282008-06-13T17:09:00.000+01:002008-06-13T17:09:00.000+01:00Okay-you're going to get a biased opinion now. I ...Okay-you're going to get a biased opinion now. I LOVE having 4! My two girls are 17 months apart. And I remember when the second came along, thinking, really, it's not that bad! I think the trick is to space the third out a bit so the older ones are more independent. Our third came 2 1/2 years later, (potty trained, already in the nursery, had a playmate) so it was a fairly easy transition. Then number 4 (SURPRISE!) came 19 months later. At the time I thought I was going to lose it! But now, she's 10 months old and things are going great. I too am facing potty training the two year old boy....NOT EXCITING! However, I rarely have to have play dates, because my kids just play with and torture each other. <BR/><BR/>GO FOR THE THIRD! You will be surprised with what you can handle.<BR/><BR/>:)<BR/>JillJillhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06835082175439641394noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7621404337988760741.post-85346454576119982052008-06-13T13:40:00.000+01:002008-06-13T13:40:00.000+01:00Sorry to tell you that the transition from two to ...Sorry to tell you that the transition from two to three was difficult. At least for us. <BR/><BR/>For one thing, we were outnumbered, even if someone takes a child with them on an errand the other parent still had two. <BR/><BR/>Secondly, 3 kids playing together isn't as ideal as 4 or 2, someone is usually odd man out. We gave a lot of thought to having a fourth for just this reason, after all we were already outnumbered. <BR/><BR/>On the bright side (and yes there is one) when they all play together it is wonderful. When the ten year old lets the three year old hang out and play legos, my heart melts. When the 7 year old reads to the three year old, he becomes my hero. And when all three decide to have a sleepover in one of their rooms, well that is just adorable.<BR/><BR/>So yes, the transition is difficult but WORTH IT!3boys247https://www.blogger.com/profile/01505366427233958542noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7621404337988760741.post-65600041956111723192008-06-13T13:36:00.000+01:002008-06-13T13:36:00.000+01:00Three was really tough. To be very honest! Everyon...Three was really tough. To be very honest! Everyone told me three was a breeze, but they LIED! <BR/><BR/>I have loved it more than any of the other times I've babies; I cherish her more, (Sounds horrible, doesn't it!) and I am WAY more relaxed this time around. But WHOA did it ever kick my butt. I was totally unprepared for the amount of work it was going to involve. <BR/><BR/>I say go for it - it's truly wonderful! You will never, ever regret it. Just know that your workload and exhaustion will be magnified incredibly! :)<BR/><BR/>-AndreaAndrea@Sgt and Mrs Hubhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02226888560872834473noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7621404337988760741.post-86744720813640972062008-06-13T13:32:00.000+01:002008-06-13T13:32:00.000+01:00you crack me up...but probably because I haven't h...you crack me up...but probably because I haven't had to face that particular reality!Simply Shannonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10978078180142966677noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7621404337988760741.post-2484558755625949622008-06-13T08:24:00.000+01:002008-06-13T08:24:00.000+01:00No words of advice here Carol, as I'm going throug...No words of advice here Carol, as I'm going through the addition of the second child and can not even imagine adding a third to the mix at the moment! If we have another kid, Kingston is going to be about 4 years old, if I can help it! ;) <BR/><BR/>I have a close friend who is getting ready to have her third baby in the fall, and she's petrified of how hard it's going to be! I'm not envying her at all right now!Melissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10808945595266944135noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7621404337988760741.post-36000868647821466012008-06-13T04:06:00.000+01:002008-06-13T04:06:00.000+01:00I may not be of any help but three children has be...I may not be of any help but three children has been way easier for me than two. I know this might sound mental but it is the truth. <BR/><BR/> I was so use to going everywhere, whenever I wanted to with my first. When two came and I was confined to my house (the thought of going anywhere by myself frightened me to death) I seriously thought I might loose it. Then you learn to cope and get things under control. So three was just adding a little more craziness to the mix but not unmanageable. Granted my laundry is still suffering to this day (17months later) but I'm doing way better with three than two. The small spell of postpartum depression with number was probably a contributing factor as well.<BR/><BR/>Sorry for the rambling... but good luck!Katiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17971776454077130099noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7621404337988760741.post-72156321175778633192008-06-13T02:53:00.000+01:002008-06-13T02:53:00.000+01:00I have to totally agree! It is so hard having them...I have to totally agree! It is so hard having them so close together. I keep telling myself that they will be such good friend, which could still happen, if they would just stop picking on each other. Of course my boys are 19 months apart, I can't imagine 18 months or less!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7621404337988760741.post-87054338518514542722008-06-13T00:35:00.000+01:002008-06-13T00:35:00.000+01:00I'm leaving my comment so I don't get put in the n...I'm leaving my comment so I don't get put in the naughty spot!!! <BR/><BR/>Actually, how could I NOT leave a comment after that post??? I LOVED IT!!<BR/><BR/>The whole part about "it is the most impossibly hard thing we have ever encountered..."?? Could you hear me screaming YES!!!! IT'S SO TRUE!!! ALL OF IT!!<BR/><BR/>However...right about now...I might be starting to see the light at the end of tunnel. My oldest is starting school and my youngest (16 months) is actually at a cool age where we don't need diaper bags and all the baby "stuff" anymore. <BR/><BR/>And I am finally showering on a regular basis again.<BR/><BR/>Life is good!!McMommyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14205694488371923701noreply@blogger.com